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06.20.08, 18:52 PM General Topics
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What is worse, a DH having an on-going affair or one who occassionally uses a "pro"? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 06:52 PM Flag
 

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How about a DH who has an ongoing affair with a pro? That was me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 06:52 PM Flag
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online affair meaning no real sex, just chat, etc? or just that they met someone online? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 06:54 PM Flag
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Ongoing, not online. Ex had an affair with a stripper who had a side business as a prostitute [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 06:55 PM Flag
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silly me! Both bad, occasional pro is probably slightly better from a forgivable standpoint (assuming that he was careful about condoms). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 06:56 PM Flag
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I count that as on-going if there was an emotional, rather than purely physical component. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 06:57 PM Flag
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So did I, hence the ex part of my life [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 06:57 PM Flag
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They each have their insurmountable issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 06:59 PM Flag
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op: please elaborate... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 07:00 PM Flag
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An ongoing affair would mean emotional intimacy, and that's a marriage-ending thing for me. And the prostitutes would mean some sort of psychological tweak beyond my wanting to understand. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 07:02 PM Flag
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Maybe the "pro" thing is a desire for some variety and also a desire to NOT have emotional intimacy with someone other the DW?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 07:07 PM Flag
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Yeah, he could argue that - but I'm not buying it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 07:08 PM Flag
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