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06.20.08, 14:23 PM New York City
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Diversity means having a few minority/immigrant kids in my son's class so that he can benefit from being "exposed" to a different culture. It's all about making my kid's experience an enriching one. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 06.20.08, 02:23 PM Flag
 

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that is what I think of the private school moms who proudly discuss how diverse their school is. feel its just entertainment and an educational piece for the wealthy white kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 02:25 PM Flag
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as long as those minority kids don't take his place... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 02:26 PM Flag
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And white kids need to be the largest group for UBers to feel comfortable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 02:27 PM Flag
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god forbid the numbers are anywhere near a reflection of the city population! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 02:40 PM Flag
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Bingo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 07:07 PM Flag
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I really hope you're joking...I think you are. Right? As the mom of a minority child, I'd throttle any parent who said such a thing to me and meant it. My daughter isn't in school to enrich some white kid's experience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 03:13 PM Flag
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I assumed OP was joking. I hope so! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 04:52 PM Flag
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Look, I'm minority and I'm glad OP feels that way. I'm tired of white people being annoyed/scared of minority kids taking "their" seats. I think they should all know diversity is good for them as well like OP said. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 05:35 PM Flag
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As long as their are only a "few" of them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 05:38 PM Flag
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Oh come on, it was totally patronizing. We're not the class hamster and we're their for our own benefit, not someone else's. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 05:39 PM Flag
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I think you are too paranoid or presumptive. How do you know OP"s motive? Give her the benefit of the doubt. Why would you assume the worst? Time to get out of the victim mentality... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 05:44 PM Flag
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np. Time to pull your head out of your a$$. OP's motive is obvious. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 07:00 PM Flag
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Truly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.21.08, 06:53 AM Flag
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You are obviously not a minority or the parent of a minority. White people are clueless about 90% of the racist comments they make. Believe me, this was one of them. And you are a closet racist if you can't see that. It was a demeaning, insulting remark. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.21.08, 06:48 AM Flag
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I'm the poster who wrote "And white kids need to be the largest group..." and I am a minority. OP is definitely making fun of those who say diversity is important - and then send them to a private school with 70% white kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.21.08, 07:37 AM Flag
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Um, I am a person of color myself. I didn't read "a few" in OP's post and I guess that's why people are upset here... which I can see. I am just more cautious about assigning guilt/accusing people of racism because, to me, that is one of the worst things in the world. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.21.08, 09:57 AM Flag
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That's not what diversity means at my dc's school. Everyone brings something to the plate--from the child with a policeman parent to the child from a wealthy, philanthropic family. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.20.08, 03:34 PM Flag
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Such entitlement and snobbery evident in this post..... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.21.08, 07:00 AM Flag
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Another mom of a minority dc here, and yup. We're quite used to it but shouldn't have to be. White entitlement is scary, especially when you realize it mid-life like we did, adopting a minority dc after living white entitlement all along. People have no clue how racist their thinking is, even their well-meant thinking. If you say positive things about a minority, if that positivity is based on their minority status, it's still racist, people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.21.08, 07:34 AM Flag
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well said. Finally someone who gets it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.21.08, 07:38 AM Flag
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Amen. Another white mom who adopted a minority race dc. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.21.08, 08:21 AM Flag
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I'm hoping OP was joking, but as another transracial mom...glad to see these responses. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.22.08, 07:20 AM Flag
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i agree. and i'm always suspect of the people who post that they don't want to move to a suburb b/c the suburbs are homogenous or that the city is more diverse. it's not the presence of different people, it's the attitude towards different people. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.22.08, 07:27 AM Flag
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