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06.19.08, 11:09 AM General Topics
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I hate my SIL. There, I said it. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 11:09 AM Flag
 

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join the club! hate MIL too.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:11 AM Flag
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OP - My MIL is nice, a bit obsessed with her ds, but nice. However, she is depressive. SIL is just a *&^%*$! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:12 AM Flag
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please share - she can't be as bad as mine [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:13 AM Flag
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First, she is 11 years older than I am (she's in her mid-30s) and she and her dh and db still live off her parents because they are both too lazy to get fulltime jobs. She could make a lot of $$ (she's a shrink) but only works 2 days/week and he didn't finish college and has been fired from several jobs for various reasons (involving inappropriate behavior). They have 1dc and my MIL was the "nanny" for the db for the first year of its life, now she pays for daycare so SIL can work (2days) and shop (3 days). Now she and DH want a second DB (which they can't afford) and she's asking me when I'm planning to get PG so we can be pg together! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:19 AM Flag
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np-how can she be a shrink if she never finished college? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:20 AM Flag
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She has a doctorate - her dh didn't finish college [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:21 AM Flag
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ok gotcha. they sound awful. i hate parasites. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:22 AM Flag
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they are total parasites. Dh and I constantly talk with his parents about it- they should make them move out of the city which is too expensive for them - but they never do anything, just keep giving them $$. DH is pissed about it, especially since it was just his birthday (and his sister's a few days before) and they gave his sister a huge gift and dh nothing. True, dh and I don't need anything and are financially secure, and I know his parents love and respect him which they don't for his sister, but still. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:28 AM Flag
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^^ oh, and for every family event she "asks" me how she can contribute (we never have things at her place because it is a total pigsty) and I ask her to bring something which she always forgets. I have bought her gift to my dh for the past 2 occasions because she "doesn't know what to get him" (her brother!), and she has frequently asked us to babysit with next to no notice, because they've never found a real babysitter. I usually say no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:23 AM Flag
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I think my in-laws are a bunch of weirdos. My BIL is a real winner. 34yo, just got his first real job this past January, dabbles in homosexuality and has had gambling problems in the past. He's got this fantastic, ambitious, successful girlfriend who's really pressuring him to marry her and I just want to shake her and say, honey, don't you know what you're getting! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:14 AM Flag
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lol how does one dabble in homosexuality? Does he only put half of the shaft in? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:18 AM Flag
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Holy crap - does she know about his gayness? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:19 AM Flag
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Ok--to clarify the dabble--he doesn't and has never dated men, every now and then he has sex with them. Not when he's in a relationship with a woman, just when he's single. Supposedly, she knows he's had a gay experience or two, but not sure she realizes it didn't just happen in college and then go away. He's really crazy about her, got the job to keep her and everything. I'm just not the sort to believe that people change for another person. And he really doesn't want to get married. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:23 AM Flag
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my exfiance is my ex for that reason. After 4 yrs I told him that he had to be true to himself and be with a man. He was shocked I brought this up but after a while agreed and living with a man [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:26 AM Flag
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omg - I'll call her! That is a divorce waiting to happen. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.19.08, 11:32 AM Flag
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