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06.17.08, 19:26 PM General Topics
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Do you judge moms who have kids who are very overweight? There's a girl in DS's K class -- she's very tall but morbidly obese -- she must weigh close to 100 pounds. Her sister in 3rd grade is even bigger. Her mom is chubby but nothing like this. Could it be that both of the kids have metabolic disorders or something? I wonder who kids can actually get that heavy. I understand chubby but a 6yo morbidly obese kid is sad... [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:26 PM Flag
 

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Why don't you ask the mom if you're so concerned about the kid's metabolism? I try to focus on my own kid and not pass judgement on the appearance of other kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:29 PM Flag
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oh come on santi-mommy-- i was asking people if they judged. i admitted that i did -- right or wrong... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:31 PM Flag
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I'm saying I dont [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:31 PM Flag
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it's not appearances, it's health and lifestyle. we all go around judging lifestyles of other people, something, that can be changed. she is not writing about the shape of their noses, phew! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:43 PM Flag
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you're not in the East Village, are you? there is a pair of sisters in our school that totally match this description. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:30 PM Flag
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no -- NJ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:31 PM Flag
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I judge the parents. Gluttony is one of the 7 deadly sins. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:38 PM Flag
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so is pride [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:43 PM Flag
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and your point is? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:45 PM Flag
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np: she was pointing out, subtlely, how prideful your post was. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:46 PM Flag
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OP here-- the mom of these obese girls is soooo nice. i can't imagine her doing anything to harm her children -- and honestly, they are so heavy that there health is probably at risk... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:42 PM Flag
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But you don't really know anything about the situation, so just drop your kid off at school and forget about the other kid. Worry about your own kid [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:49 PM Flag
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so, you're not curious about any other child but your own? if a child is not properly cared for? if a child has cuts and bruises, wears shabby clothes. etc? the child could have fallen off a bike or been beaten by a parent. so, should you never wonder? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:53 PM Flag
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I don't care about what a child wears or how heavy he or she is. If a child is coming to school covered head to toe in bruises, or has curious bruises, I would care. But clothing and weight are not my concern [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:55 PM Flag
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i don't know but IMO overfeeding a child to the point when it becomes a health issue is abuse... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:59 PM Flag
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