< Return to Talk
06.17.08, 13:46 PM General Topics
18 replies
DH is having lunch w/a girl (he was friends w/ her a while back,she is married, but her marriage is in trouble, she just started taking antidepressants. She has also called our home approximate 25x in the last few months-dh did not call back which is i think why she called so much, now they are finally having lunch). I'm not 'worried' per say that this is a cheating thing...but I do I feel so WEIRD about this? She is attractive and younger than me, which does not help. thoughts? tia. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 01:46 PM Flag
 

Dear UrbanBaby community,

Thank you so much for being a valued member of the UrbanBaby community. We wanted to inform you that we are shutting down the site on July 6th. We are grateful for your participation and support that has helped make UrbanBaby such an important resource to parents for many years.

If you have any questions or concerns, you can email us at urbanbaby-support@cbsinteractive.com.

Thanks so much,

UrbanBaby Support

»
one lunch is acceptable (I'm assuming dh thinks this will get her off his back). The porblem is she will only be ncouraged by the lunch, even if dh is well meaning. Befreo lunch, tell dh you are uncomfortable with the situation and expect that he will not have lunch or see her without you, again. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 01:48 PM Flag
»
i'm sure it's allright, BUT, totally understand feeling weird. and honestly, be vigilant, something off about the 25 calls. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 01:52 PM Flag
»
your gut is telling you something... Why did she start calling DH again in the first place ? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 01:53 PM Flag
»
follow your instincts here. i had a similar situation a few yrs ago only the "girl" was working for my dh in his office and she started pursuing him telling a story about her troubled marriage. She turned into a real wack job and began hitting on him - be careful! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 01:55 PM Flag
»
listen to what yr intuition is telling you. doesnt she have anyone else to go to!! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 01:58 PM Flag
»
Because, for whatever reason, your DH is her "break glass in emergency" guy. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 02:11 PM Flag
»
my first dh had a compulsion to help needy women, which always eventually involved his penis....not saying her dh is like that but just saying [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 02:35 PM Flag
»
They appeal to man who wants to be the knight in shining armor. You probably were too self-sufficient and strong for him. Hoping your wording means you have a second, better DH? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 02:37 PM Flag
»
yep, this one is as loyal as the day is long [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 02:41 PM Flag
»
do you have a pet rabbit? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 02:42 PM Flag
»
My ex did this... then he started hanging out with her (and her child - she was a single mom); then I started to be told how fascinating she was; how interesting; how impressive she was.... ending with how he couldn't imagine being interested in what I would have to say 20 years down the road... [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 02:42 PM Flag
»
VOMIT. I'm sorry, must have been torture to watch this happen. (np) [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 02:44 PM Flag
»
Nope.. because the best part? She talked him into renting a car for her under his credit card... she took off; had apparently quit her job with out any notice; rented the car on Friday and he found out about all this on Monday. He f.r.e.a.k.e.d out (needless to say). [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 02:45 PM Flag
»
Love it. So you dumped him anyway? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 02:49 PM Flag
»
I need to know - what happenned to your marriage? I could never recover from dh telling me that. i hope you're good now. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 03:05 PM Flag
»
Tell your dh you don't feel comfortable about this situation before they start meeting up. I'd go with your gut feeling on this one. I'd say she is after something. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 02:43 PM Flag
»
she is definitely after him. 25 calls is unacceptable. I would tell him that lunch is fine once, but not more than that. She needs to find some girlfriends to help her get through this. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 03:09 PM Flag
»
i have a neighbor like that, divorced, goes after everybody in the building. you know your dh better, but even if he'll never go for her, i would keep her away just not to keep her encouraged and to prevent people from making guesses. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.17.08, 03:13 PM Flag
Refresh » New Post »
Select Category
close [X]

close [X]

Select a Category (only 1)

category
Stages
Regions