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06.17.08, 12:17 PM General Topics
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Divorced mom in a new relationship. When is good point to get serious? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 12:17 PM Flag
 

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I was in that position last year.....I'd say at least 2-3 months, feel it through. How far along are you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:17 PM Flag
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We've know each other a few months but just started officially dating 3 or so weeks ago. We're already talking or at least texting each other every day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:20 PM Flag
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How far along are you two now? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:21 PM Flag
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not sure what you mean? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:23 PM Flag
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How far have you gone with him? Meaning physical? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:26 PM Flag
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we just had sex for the first time [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:27 PM Flag
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Where did you do it? How was it? Did you or he spend the night? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:28 PM Flag
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my house in the morning after he spent the night. it was good for a first time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:33 PM Flag
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very cool. why did he spend the night before sex? did you share a bed? what did he waer to bed? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:34 PM Flag
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he has spent the night 4 or 5 times and we had not had sex until recently. he wanted to but i held off a bit. he like to snuggle too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:40 PM Flag
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He sounds really good. Sounds like a keeper. Out of curiousity, when he has slept oer, what does he wear to bed? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:41 PM Flag
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soft material boxer type. why? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:42 PM Flag
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just curious....says how far along he is viewing it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:46 PM Flag
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curious, what do you mean? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:50 PM Flag
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that is he willing to let you see him undressed and a little vulnurable all night. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:56 PM Flag
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really depends on the person, obviously. i think trust your gut feeling and get serious as quickly as you feel like it's ok for you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:26 PM Flag
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any advice on when to introduce daughter? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:28 PM Flag
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Do you see a future with him? What age are each of you? what does he think about marrying a single mom? Does he have kids? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:29 PM Flag
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i think we could have a future. he is 42 and I am 38. have not had marriage discussion but after longish discussion he said he was "just going to go for it otherwise someone else will snap you up." he has a 19 year old [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:32 PM Flag
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How old are yours? Is his a boy or girl? Is he divorced or widowed? What are your jobs? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:34 PM Flag
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my dd is 5. his is a ds. he had the kid out of wedlock when he was very young but is very involved. curious, why are jobs relevant? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:35 PM Flag
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ah just curious. Sounds like he is a good father to his son. Do you think he'll be good to your daughter? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:38 PM Flag
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probably [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:47 PM Flag
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What are your feelings about him? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:34 PM Flag
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i like him...a lot. we clicked the first night we met. felt like i was talking to someone who just got me. it's easy. trying to remain calm. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:41 PM Flag
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all sounds good so far. i would not introduce to dd for a while though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:41 PM Flag
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right. how long is a good time to wait? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:43 PM Flag
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Here's my advice, maybe graduatlly introduce him to yuor daughter. Maybe as a friend at first. Then move it up. Maybe meet his son alone with him. And then move it up with your daughter. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:43 PM Flag
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good idea. been having thoughts about a second baby lately and cannot help but consider him a candidate already. is that strange? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 12:49 PM Flag
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That isn't strange. Do you think he wants more kids? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 01:00 PM Flag
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i think so. he was pretty intense from the beginning and i told him the other night that he was too intense. now i regret saying that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 01:03 PM Flag
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how intense? give examples? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 01:08 PM Flag
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wanting to hang out a lot. mentioning he liked me a lot. wanted to go away together already. since our discussion, he has mellowed out a bit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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He sounds great. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 01:15 PM Flag
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told him it was too early to go away together. now i want to. what should i do? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 01:16 PM Flag
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Maybe talk to him about a weeekend awya in July. Pick a weekend and a spot and discuss. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 01:17 PM Flag
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good idea. but, have free weekend in 2 weeks because ex-husband's parents are in town so my daughter will be with them all weekend. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 01:27 PM Flag
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