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06.17.08, 07:38 AM General Topics
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relationship advice needed...for people who have happy marriages now where your husband is a "man" when you got with your current husband - were they a "man" then or did they grow to become one? Divorced and met a guy I really really like however he is 30 and some parts he is a man some parts def a child still. Worried because I feel like he will become a man...but at the same time worried because what if he doesn't. And when I say man - I mean take care of his familly...be the provider etc. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:38 AM Flag
 

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a 30yo should be a man. does he support himself? have a career? have ambition and the desire to have a family? if no to any of these, move on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:41 AM Flag
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Marry him for who he is now. Don't expect change because it won't happen fast. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:42 AM Flag
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this is so true [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 08:16 AM Flag
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a 30yo is a man. If he's not up to the task of being a good caregiver/provider for his family, he's not the man for you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:44 AM Flag
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Benny Hill said it well: Aisle, alter, hymn = I'll alter him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:48 AM Flag
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we met in college. he was always a man (responsible, goal-oriented, etc.). It has nothing to do with age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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np: Well, it can have something to do with age. Your DH was very mature for his age, others may take a bit of their 20s to figure stuff out. By 30, though, something's up if he's still acting immature. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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Don't get into the relationship any further if you want him/expect him to change. Take him for who is he! Good luck! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:56 AM Flag
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DH is a kid at heart about a lot of things, but he's a solid provider and father. I wouldn't expect someone to change. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.17.08, 07:58 AM Flag
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