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06.16.08, 13:26 PM TTC
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I had a m/c on Friday and I just can't focus on work today. The tears heve stopped, but I'm so down. How long will this last? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
TTC 06.16.08, 01:26 PM Flag
 

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Three or four weeks. It gets easier then, and hopefully you will be pregnant again soon. Sorry for your loss. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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I am so sorry for your loss. Give yourself some time to grieve. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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i cried on and off for about three weeks. i still can't talk about it and am having an emotionally difficult time but at least i don't think about it nonstop anymore. (it's been about six weeks for me). Best of luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:30 PM Flag
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thanks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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How far along were you? Do you have any dc's? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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7 weeks, I have a 4.5 year old. Not my first m/c, but it took a long time to get preg this time and I feel like I'm getting older and the age gap keeps growing. Too scared to keep trying and feel this down again. It seems unfair to the wonderful ds that I'm blessed to have to have a sad mommy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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give yourself some time before you make any decisions. I felt this way as well but then a year later (with a 5 yr gap) decided to give it one last try--so glad I did. You have one dc so your odds are much better. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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same just happened to me a few weeks ago. honestly the first few days were the worst and then i felt better. sorry this happened. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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anyway you could take the day off tomorrow? could you and your other child just go to the zoo or something? i think a day off of work is totally warranted in this case. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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Great idea. But I'm waiting for it to pass naturally and it hasn't yet. If not, I'll need to take a day for the d&c. Maybe I'll just take 2 days. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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you have my support (and prob the support of every woman in the world who has been pregnant) on taking two days. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:54 PM Flag
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poor thing! if at all possible, take the time off. I had to work through mine and it was really awful. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:34 PM Flag
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I'm so sorry for your loss. You are forever changed, but time will help stop the tears. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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i'm so sorry for your loss. it took me a while to get back to "normal." just remember that you experienced a loss and you're allowed to grieve. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:26 PM Flag
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so sorry. go ahead and be down about it. also helps to talk about it w/someone who's been through it. it's really hard and all the sympathy in the world is not the same as talking it out w/someone who's btdt. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:29 PM Flag
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