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06.16.08, 12:20 PM New York City
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I am a 32 year widowed single mom. Right now, I am not looking for a relationship. But honestly I just need sex. Where is a good place to find good looking men who are interested in a sexual relationship with a single mom? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 06.16.08, 12:20 PM Flag
 

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i found it with a friend who I have known for a long time. he was single and its fun, but there is always the fact that I think he wants more out of the relationship and I dont (not now anyway). divorced, not widowed [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:21 PM Flag
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How did you bring it up with him? How did it develop? How often do you have sex with him? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:22 PM Flag
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he actually hit on me for a few months before i finally gave in. at first it was a couple times a week, then it died down and then it was every few weeks...only thing that irked was that he was probably sleeping with other people and i worried about std's (even though we used protection) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:24 PM Flag
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Why do neither of you want a relationship? Has that ever been an issue? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:25 PM Flag
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How is the sex? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:26 PM Flag
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honestly, its amazing (a bit over the top sometimes) that is why we still hang out sometimes. I dont want relationship with him because, even though he is a great person, I dont think we are very compatible. I can make it work, but after being divorced once already I just cant settle. he does want to try really dating, but I just dodge the issue. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:28 PM Flag
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How is it over teh top? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:30 PM Flag
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He is a lot more sexual than me (or so I thought until I started hanging out with him) and is into some things I am not into. no such thing as a quickie with him its like a marathon all the time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:32 PM Flag
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OP: Sounds like a guy I'd like. You should be happy with him. What are some of the things he's into? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:33 PM Flag
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that is what my sister says too. he is very verbal in bed and expects me to be too (which i really dont like) among other things [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:36 PM Flag
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He sounds great, at least to me. The fact that he can go for a long time. What are teh other things he wants in bed? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:39 PM Flag
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pretty much anything butt related [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:55 PM Flag
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where isn't a good place for that? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:22 PM Flag
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ita [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:29 PM Flag
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Damn! I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I have an adorable brother who seems to really like sex and isn't very fond of commitment. Do you want me to call him for you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:22 PM Flag
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Where does he live? How old? What is he like? How cute? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:23 PM Flag
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NP: How do you know your brother likes sex? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:24 PM Flag
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I'm assuming because he is always meeting up with us for breakfast with some new woman that I know I will never see with him again. He really is too good looking for his own good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:25 PM Flag
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OP: Where does he live? How old is he? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:26 PM Flag
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He's 31 and currently living in Boston, but does a ton of business in NY. He also has a home outside LA. He's pretty immature, imho, but I'm his big sister. He has a very big heart and needs to find the right girl, blah, blah, blah. However, he gets death and grief in a real way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:29 PM Flag
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I live in New York. The distance doesn't bother me since I am looking for sex and not a relationship. Well of course I'd like to have dinner, etc. with teh guy too, but nothing dating wise. He sounds like a great guy. How does he get death and grief? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:31 PM Flag
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NP: How would you tell your brother you found him a sex partner on UB? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:26 PM Flag
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buy a vibrator -- it won't disappoint you or give you an STD [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:23 PM Flag
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I would use protection and all of that. And the vibrator isn't doing it for me rihgt now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:23 PM Flag
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college campus, seriously [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:26 PM Flag
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How do I pick a guy up there? I know it sounds weird, but I could do it while I was in college. But now I am 32, so any advice? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:27 PM Flag
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cougar's are in. it's almost a sure thing that they'll only be in it for the sex, but they'll treat you with more respect (and awe) than one of their peers. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:36 PM Flag
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So do I just start hanging out on campuses, looking for cute guys for sex? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:40 PM Flag
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I wouldn't do the bar scene. too skeevy, unless it's a sports bar, but don't do that unless you're really into sports. what about a bookstore near campus or a starbucks or cafe [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:47 PM Flag
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I like those ideas, the bookstores and Starbucks. That works well. I can do that easily. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:51 PM Flag
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good luck! I like your style [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 12:54 PM Flag
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