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06.15.08, 12:06 PM General Topics
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My dh and I have had a very rough few years...really poor communication, almost no sex. we went to a therapist...things are much better. dh is much more affectionate, better husband, all around a million times nicer. but the attraction part isn't coming back yet. i sometimes feel attracted to him, but other times i think that i can't believe he will be the only person i will be with for the rest of our lives. it's just not hot anymore. it makes me sad. not to get too detailed, but i have to use lube with him and i know that i don't need it (ie. when i'm alone). [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.15.08, 12:06 PM Flag
 

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do you still have lingering feelings of anger towards him? being married changes sex that's for sure, but it doesn't have to be boring. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.15.08, 12:08 PM Flag
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can't respond below...no real anger, but i feel different. not totally in love. i mean i love him, but i just don't feel excited. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.15.08, 12:11 PM Flag
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are you just bored or don't love him b/c there is a real difference? if you are bored, you can try to spice things up. if you don't think you are in love with him, that's another story. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.15.08, 12:12 PM Flag
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bored, i think. but i know he will do anything in bed i want...very adventuresome. i just dont' want to a lot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.15.08, 12:13 PM Flag
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so then it's up to you to tap into his wild side and get what you want. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.15.08, 12:15 PM Flag
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just fake it until it comes back [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.15.08, 01:06 PM Flag
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Your marriage pre-therapy sounds like mine right now. Can I ask what the best things the therapist discussed with you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.15.08, 01:09 PM Flag
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