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06.14.08, 07:20 AM General Topics
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Help, no flames please. Was dating a guy I was really into, he ended up going home one weekend and saw/hooked up w/ an ex, told me right away, then a month later, apologized, sent me flowers... so now we are emailing again. I know I can't get back together with him, but I can't find the strength to tell him I think we should not be in contact anymore because I still have strong feelings for him. At the same time, being in this limbo is torture as well. What should I do?? I just can't seem to let it go. :( [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.14.08, 07:20 AM Flag

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Why can't you get back with him? If he is seeing someone else then you really should cut contact and move on. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.14.08, 07:22 AM Flag

he's not seeing anyone else... the ex thing I think was just an in the moment bad judgement thing... I guess I feel like I can't get back together because I feel like the trust is broken between us so the relationship could probably never go anywhere. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.14.08, 07:23 AM Flag

To be honest you could always give it another go and see what happens. At least you won't be left wondering. I split with my boyfriend then eventually got back with him and soon worked out that it had been a mistake to get back together. At least I have absolutely no doubts that we shouldn't be together. GL [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.14.08, 07:27 AM Flag

thank you, that is encouraging [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.14.08, 07:34 AM Flag

Just keep repeating to yourself "Cheater Cheat", and call him to say goodbye. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.14.08, 07:46 AM Flag

^^opps "Cheaters Cheat" [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.14.08, 07:53 AM Flag

the calling him to say goodbye part is the part I don't think I can bring myself to do. :( [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.14.08, 07:55 AM Flag

then send him an email. Honestly, if he waited a month to start really trying to get you back, I think it's time to let him go. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.14.08, 08:04 AM Flag

i'm a little confused by the timeline here on his apology etc, but... i think you should give it another shot with him. how long were you with him before this happened? if not that long, then def. give another shot. relationships with ex's are weird, and i think while it doesn't excuse the misstep, if he's over that now and into you and your'e into him you should try to make it work. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.14.08, 09:07 AM Flag

i really think cheating in relationship is different than cheating in marriage. and i still think both are work-through-able [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.14.08, 09:11 AM Flag