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06.13.08, 21:47 PM General Topics
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dh here - open for questions. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.13.08, 09:47 PM Flag
 

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have you had an affair [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 09:51 PM Flag
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I have not, you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 09:54 PM Flag
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dh is having one [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 09:55 PM Flag
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sorry about that. what are the details, and what is your plan? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 09:56 PM Flag
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I only found out recently. We have only been married for four years and I have pretty much been pregnant the entire marriage. He had the affair with a neighbor of ours - a young couple moved in about a year ago nearby and for several months he has been running off with her. I don't even know what I am going to do because our kids and our marriage are so young. He didn't even have much to say. I'm still getting over the shock. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 09:58 PM Flag
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I am very sorry. Don't have a lot of advice, because I have't walked in your shoes. But I feel for you, and hope it works out the best it can. How did you find out? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:01 PM Flag
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I found out from the husband of the woman he was having the affair with actually and then from my dh. I had my suspicions, but I thought it was jsut my hormones during pregnancy. I should have known by how close they woudl stand when talking and how he would always help her carry stuff fro her car and work late. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:04 PM Flag
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sorry, that sucks. but I think things will work out for you. Take your time, and go slow. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:06 PM Flag
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are you thinking of leaving him? what was his reaction? did you say anything to the lady he had the affair with. is he still having the affair? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:07 PM Flag
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It is hard to think of life without being married to him - we have four very young children. I am not at all prepared to be a single mother. I don't even know. I haven't spoken to his mistress, but he has since left the house and I haven't seen much of her so I would assume they are together. He barely had any emotion or reaction. He just seemed scared. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:10 PM Flag
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Hey, I am so so sorry. I know you are going through a very difficult times. I am sure things will turn around good for you in the near future. but it is probably very depressing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:13 PM Flag
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sorry, go day by day. I met my now dw after she went through a very tough separation and divorce. things can and will work out! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:15 PM Flag
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when you were together, did you think you had a good marriage? how was your sex life? from today's prespective, do you think you had a good marriage? all the best to you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:14 PM Flag
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We were married for four years and out sex life was amazing. We got pregnant with our first child a couple weeks before we got married and I have pretty much been pregnant each year of our marriage. The first was a surprise, the second was planned and he was insistent that we keep having more. We were happy, we have great kids and he is the perfect father. I have no idea what caused him to stray from our marriage and our family. We've only been married for four years. That is why it is such a shock to me. We were already discussing when we might try for another child. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:19 PM Flag
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I am sorry. did you try speaking to him and asking him if he wasn't happy? where do you live? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:21 PM Flag
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We spoke, the initial conversation just pretty much consisted of me in shock, crying, unable to get out words. We spoke again the next night and I told him it might be best if we were apart to think about this and when he had something to say he should call me. He hasn't called yet. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:24 PM Flag
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you sound pretty strong to me. I know this must be difficult, but continue being strong. :) I don't know you, but I'm sending you a hug [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:27 PM Flag
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I don't know about the strong thing. I haven't been sleeping more than 2-3 hours at a time, I haven't been eating much, I haven't really handled the shock. I feel like I haven't even reacted to it or realized what happened. I haven't even told my family yet. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:29 PM Flag
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doesn't sound like he wants a divorce, which is interesting. but he does sound like a classic pig i have to say. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.14.08, 03:08 AM Flag
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how long have you been married dh [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:00 PM Flag
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5 yrs [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:04 PM Flag
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how many kids [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:05 PM Flag
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2 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:05 PM Flag
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ages? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:06 PM Flag
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4 and 1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:08 PM Flag
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how did you meet your wife? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:06 PM Flag
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mutual friends. unexpected, but great. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:08 PM Flag
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perhaps you can help me - I am 34 and the mother of two girls, ages 9 and 5 and I really want to have one more child. My dh is 51 and he has a 25yo ds and 20yo ds from his last marriage and it was hard for me to even talk him into having second dd. I've always wanted three and I would love to try for a boy. Though I am technically a step-mom to his sons, they are grown and I am completely in love with my husband and want to give him another boy. How can I get him to agree? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:16 PM Flag
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ugh [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:30 PM Flag
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ugh what? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:34 PM Flag
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i second the ugh. don't you have enough to be thankful for? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.14.08, 02:54 AM Flag
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give him another boy? are boys better than girls? and it sunds like he doesn't want another boy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.14.08, 05:47 AM Flag
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ita- that sounds really off. Just be happy with what you have. I don't get why a boy is necessary for you or your marriage [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.14.08, 06:11 AM Flag
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what is your most annoying habit according to your wife and your wife's most annoying habit according to you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:20 PM Flag
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tough one - we are always trying to be more open sexually. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:26 PM Flag
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how often do you have sex? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:30 PM Flag
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Would you have sex with a guy for her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 11:07 PM Flag
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