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06.13.08, 15:54 PM Toddler
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attendance - who is on...how old, how many kids and how old? how old is dh? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
Toddler 06.13.08, 03:54 PM Flag
 

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44, 1, 5, 43 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 03:55 PM Flag
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44 - dd is 11 and ds is 13 months [ Reply | More
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31, 3: 4, 3, 2. 31. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 03:56 PM Flag
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i'm 41 and dh is 36, dd's are 11, 9 and 4 and ds is 3 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 03:57 PM Flag
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is that like having two separate sets of kids? my friend's mom used to joke she had two families b/c she had a big gap between her older kids and her younger kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 03:58 PM Flag
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we went on a hiatus i guess! third dd was a surprise and we decided to have one more after so she had a sibling close in age [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 03:59 PM Flag
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are you happy with it this way? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:01 PM Flag
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it was a nice surprise and our family feels more complete, it also got us a son which we never thought we'd have. it is a nice balance and it was nice to have time with our daughters instead of popping out the kids one after another! now our dd and ds get lots of attention as well bc the older girls are at school [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:02 PM Flag
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cool. it sounds great. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:06 PM Flag
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35, 1 (1 on the way), 4, 39 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 03:57 PM Flag
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39, dh is 38, dd is 2 and expecting number two July 13 [ Reply | More
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40, 2 dc 8yr and 4yr and pg with #3. Dh is 39 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 03:59 PM Flag
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33, 1, 3, 45 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:01 PM Flag
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26, dh is 28 dd's are 3 and expecting ds next week!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:01 PM Flag
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are you the mom converting her apt? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:02 PM Flag
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nope [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:04 PM Flag
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I am 33 and DH is 34 - dd is 6 and ds is 8 months [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:03 PM Flag
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30, dh is 44 - dd is 6, ds is 3 and dd is 5 weeks [ Reply | More
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35, dh is 30 dd is 5 and ds is 3 [ Reply | More
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29, dh 32, dd 2,ds 11mo, 3 months pregnant with number 3 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:07 PM Flag
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well, i am in a big family - i am 43, dh is 39 - i have three kids from first marriage - dd 19, dd 17, dd 12 and he has two kids from first marriage - dd 11 and ds 8 and we have a 9mo dd together [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:09 PM Flag
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I'm 40, DH is 37 - 1 DD, 4 y/o [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:10 PM Flag
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26, dh is 26 dd is 14mo and ttc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:12 PM Flag
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44, dh is 54, ds 15, ds 13, dd 10mo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:13 PM Flag
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whoa [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 10:33 PM Flag
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I am 24 and dh is 30 - dd is 5 weeks old [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:16 PM Flag
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40, dh is 35, dd is 6 and twin ds 9months [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:16 PM Flag
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44,1, 2, 55 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:18 PM Flag
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48, 2 dcs, 4.5yo and 18 mo (the baby was a big surprise!) dh is 44 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:21 PM Flag
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Wow! You go girl! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 04:57 PM Flag
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how is it having a baby at that age? I am 46 and have a 9 year old and a 6 year old and lately dh and I have been wondering what it would be like with one more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:08 PM Flag
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a science experiment for someone with a very large bank account. That said, I highly reccommend it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:13 PM Flag
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OR: Actually, my second pregnancy was remarkably easy -- no real problems (unless you count a broken toe), I felt great throughout -- I still tease my dh that maybe we should go for another one (but we know lightning won't strike twice). We are incredibly blessed, and every day I look at my dcs and think how very lucky I am. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:24 PM Flag
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well donor egg solves a lot of problems. The pregnancy is rarely the issue if you're basically in good health, it's the conception. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:30 PM Flag
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ita. I had my third at 46 and it was as easy as the first at 28 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:30 PM Flag
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i had twin boys at 17 and went through a difficult pregnancy that left me unable to have children after, used a surrogate to have a child with dh a couple years after we married when i was 36 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:32 PM Flag
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OR: yes, it does, butI didn't have a donor egg -- my dc#2 is the spitting image of me, no one will ever guess otherwise. I'm pretty amused that there are people here who think my story is "impossible". Unlikely, yes. Impossible, definitely not. I suspect there may be some here who are envious of my good luck; I know infertility is very hard (I did have 3 m/cs and my sister was never able to conceive despite years of trying). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:40 PM Flag
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why would people here be envious of you? You only have two dcs. Try for # 3 and we'll talk. Signed 53 y/o mother of 3. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:41 PM Flag
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you might kid the posters here, but you're not kidding me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:12 PM Flag
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I am not the OP, but my sister is 47 and had a surprise pregnancy - she found out just a nmonth before her 47th birthday, she had no idea [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:13 PM Flag
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The probability that she had fertility treatments and is not interested in disclosing this to you is far greater than the likelihood that this happenned naturally. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:25 PM Flag
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no she definitely didn't - my sister's sons were 19 and 17 at the time - one in college and one graduating from high school, she was ready to travel with her dh [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:27 PM Flag
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me too lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:28 PM Flag
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OR: I did not have fertility treatments for db#2 -- I got pg unexpectedly at 45, had a m/c, we were looking into adoption when I discovered I was pg again at 46. I don't think fertility treatments are anything to be ashamed of, and in any event why wouldn't I admit to that on an anonymous board? This baby was a wonderful beautiful surprise. It happens. (My pp doula also had a child at 47 -- her 7th -- and it was natural as well). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:31 PM Flag
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Sorry, why do you protest so much. You story is impossible and laughable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:34 PM Flag
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you're a bit odd. you've never heard of pregnancies in mid to late 40s that were naturally conceived? I'm surprised you are so poorly informed. They are rare, but they happen. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:43 PM Flag
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thank you for correctly me, poorly informed one. The only thing you said that makes any sense at all is that it is "rare". That means that a naturally conceived child with a mother 44 or over is almost unheard of. Most of the stories you hear are just that - stories. At the end of the day it is no one's business. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 06:00 PM Flag
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itta - poster below refers to "change of life babies" as if she's telling us all something we don't know. I have to leave - this is too much. lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 06:13 PM Flag
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you really don't believe that women in their late 40s can have DCs without medical intervention, do you? it happens, more frequently in the past, when women started having DBs earlier and had more of them, but it's certainly not a medical miracle either. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 06:17 PM Flag
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women can have kids in their forties! i had my first at 40 and my second at 42 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 09:17 PM Flag
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i had my first dd at 30 and my second at 32 and i am now 42 and pregnant with a surprise baby, it happens [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 09:32 PM Flag
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NP: They used to be called "change of life babies" - women in their late 40s who thought they were going through menopause, but who were really pregnant. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:47 PM Flag
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well well I expect we'll see her on the Today show. Check the stats. It is almost unheard of. That said, it's no one's business but hers and her dh's [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:32 PM Flag
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My daugher's teacher had a surprise pregnancy with twins at 47, it happens more often these days though still not the most common [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:33 PM Flag
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lololololol. Oh gee twins? I wonder why? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:34 PM Flag
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no it definitely wasnt - she had just gotten married and when she found out she was pregnant her sh left her, the marriage barely lasted three months, i wound up getting my dd a tutor for after school bc her teacher was absent every other day because of all this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:36 PM Flag
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Wow, I went through that in my first marriage, though I was 25. We were married for 10 months when I found out I was pregnant and before I even started showing he was out the door. I can't imagine that at 47, especially with twins!!!!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:39 PM Flag
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25, dh is 25 dd is 3 and ds is 8 months [ Reply | More
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39, 2 DC: 6 and 3-and-1/2, 39 [ Reply | More
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38, dh is 43, dd is 3, ds is 11 months and ttc [ Reply | More
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41 -- 7, 5, and 2 -- 42 [ Reply | More
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47 - dd's are 7, 5, and 4 and twin ds are 11months [ Reply | More
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46, dh is 30, dd is 2, twin dds are 8 months [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:07 PM Flag
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You are 16 yrs older than your DH? That's unusual! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:13 PM Flag
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I am, not something I ever imagined happening. My first marriage was the opposite - ex was 5 years older than me, didn't want kids, we stayed married for 10 years, I was single for a long time, met my current dh and thought it would just be a fling - but here we are, married for five years with kids! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:15 PM Flag
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donor eggs? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:14 PM Flag
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no, first pregnancy was natural - we tried for two years and i had two miscarriages and was on bed rest for the last three months before giving birth, second pregnancy we went for invitro [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:16 PM Flag
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I couldn't reply above. What a great story! Did you ever think that you would be mom to 3 girls?! How cool is that! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:18 PM Flag
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I never thought I would be a mom period! I always wanted to have kids young, but my ex sprung the no kids thing on me after we already married, then when we divorced I thought I would never get married again and considered adopting when I neared 40. Meeting my dh was the best thing that ever happened to me and my girls are just perfect! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:20 PM Flag
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you are the reverse of dh and i - my dh is 52 and i am 30, we had a 3 year old daughter and i am pregnant with a boy due in august! he was also married for many years to a woman who didn't want kids and then we met! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:37 PM Flag
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37, dd 4yo and ds 2yo, dh is 34 [ Reply | More
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39, DH is 45; dds are 5, 1 [ Reply | More
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27, dh is 28 dd is 6 months [ Reply | More
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I am 35 and dh is 32, i have a 14 year old from a previous relationship and we have a 2 year old dd and i am 5 months pregnant with another girl! [ Reply | More
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I am 34 and dh is 37 - twin dd's are 14, ds is 5 and dd is 8 months [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:31 PM Flag
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I'm 39, DH is 35, we have a huge family! I have a 19 year old daughter from my first marriage and then together we have 13yo dd, 10yo ds, 7yo ds, 6yo, dd, 4yo dd, 4yo dd and 2 mo dd - we are done now! Wanted a big family and we got it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 05:41 PM Flag
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24 - dh 29 - dd 6 weeks [ Reply | More
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cccccc [ Reply | More
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34, 3, 14, 2, 1, 31 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 06:53 PM Flag
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i'm 40, dh is 44, dd is 10, ds is 6 and dd is 2 [ Reply | More
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44, dh is 36 - i have a 14yo dd from first marriage and a 3yo ds with dh [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 09:51 PM Flag
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no [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.08, 10:02 AM Flag
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43, 2 (8 & 10), 43 [ Reply | More
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44, 4, 45 (both kid and child in one) [ Reply | More
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31, 1 on the way, 30 [ Reply | More
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