UrbanBaby

06.11.08, 11:11 AM General Topics
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Can someone help me. I seem like a confident person but I obsess secretly about really stupid things like whether or not my daughters get invited to birthday parties or if i get invited to parties. It's sad and I need some perspective. I know I shouldn't care and this stuff is not important. I care about playdates, friends having dinner and not inviting me. It's making me sad because I know I shouldn't care. Help me. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.11.08, 11:11 AM Flag

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i don't know if i can help you--but think about a dinner party that you had where you didn't invite someone that you otherwise like. not everything is a slight. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.11.08, 11:22 AM Flag

You are me! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.11.08, 11:26 AM Flag

perhaps talk to a therapist. were you socially excluded as a child/teen or in your family? I think our issues almost always stem from our formative years. gluck [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.11.08, 11:26 AM Flag

i used to be like that and then i went into therapy and got on some meds -- has made the world of difference. don't beat yourself up [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.11.08, 03:44 PM Flag

It is contagious. Don't give this to your daughter. You have esteem issues. Get help. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.11.08, 04:02 PM Flag