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06.10.08, 12:47 PM General Topics
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need serious help. it was v. hard for me to get pg b/c of male factor IF. so we used IUI. i got pg. now i'm 8 months along w/ our son. we had a 3D ultrasound and the baby looks just like me! dh acting weird. doubting paternity and not saying that he's looking forward to the baby. he is being crazy, but i'm afraid he won't bond. what can i do? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.10.08, 12:47 PM Flag
 

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just wait it out. men are very odd during pregnancy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.10.08, 12:48 PM Flag
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he is just nervous. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.10.08, 12:48 PM Flag
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your baby will look different at birth, adn on average more babies look like their dads in the first year. wait until he sees the baby. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.10.08, 12:49 PM Flag
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omg. your dh is nuts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.10.08, 12:49 PM Flag
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that is what I was thinking. I would be so pissed at dh if he doubted paternity just because dc didn't look like him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.10.08, 12:54 PM Flag
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seriously. like anyone could control that. my dd looked just like dh, good thing she came out of my vaj or else I wouldn't think she was mine! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.10.08, 01:00 PM Flag
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OR: ditto [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.10.08, 01:01 PM Flag
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you could really see the kid that well? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.10.08, 12:50 PM Flag
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it was very clear. i compared pics of the baby to pics of me when i was infant... it's like looking at the same child. same eyes/mouth exactly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.10.08, 12:53 PM Flag
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it sounds like your husband may be having trouble coping with the idea of becoming a father. i have no idea whether it has to do with the problems getting pregnant, but i think it is more common than you would think (given its something people dont like to talk about). talk to him about it, if he struggles after the baby is born maybe try therapy. this may sound extreme but my dh had a crisis after our baby was born, though now almost 2 years into it he is fine and very well bonded -- it did take a while though. gl! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.10.08, 12:59 PM Flag
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