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06.10.08, 11:59 AM General Topics
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DH and I now have sex very rarely. I am 6 mos postpartum, breastfeeding, still 40 lbs overweight and have absolutely no sex drive. Neither does he, apparently, although I know it must be happening somewhere. Is a morning wank in the shower enough? Maybe he is getting "massages"? I know it is not an affair or hookers (he doesn't like the money-power relationship). I am doing my best but we are both so tired and just never get around to it. Is a morning wank enough to keep him happy for 6 months? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.10.08, 11:59 AM Flag
 

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for six months, with you being in your condition, he can survive. But you could also offer to lend a hand once in a while. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.08, 12:02 PM Flag
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dh here...morning wank kept me going for 99% of the first 15 years of my sperm-producing era. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.08, 12:03 PM Flag
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np ITA but really the best way to handle this is just to start. Can you get a babysitter and have a date once in awhile or go out of town or even to a local hotel? Sometimes all it takes is a little child free time to remind you why you were with this person in the first place! Then, a little wine a lot of lube and soon you will forget why you stopped in the first place! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.08, 12:07 PM Flag
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he's tired, too. i couldn't have sex for alot fo my pregnancy adn then again after baby was born. my husband didn't stray, even though he wasn't happy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.08, 12:04 PM Flag
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just know that what you are both experiencing is very, very normal. we had sex once in the first year pp. we might be on the far end of the infrequent spectrum, but still it's normal. the first couple of years as parents are precious and horrific, all at the same time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.08, 12:04 PM Flag
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