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06.09.08, 13:31 PM General Topics
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My friends father died. They had a wake one day on a Thursday and Friday was the burial followed by a party. She gave the info for the wake with instructions to come on the party which she never sent out. I didn't want to call her on the day of the funeral to ask "where's the party?" so I didn't go. My other friend who also did not go, because she used to be engaged to her brother and both are now with other people, gave me shit for not trying harder. PLUS I work full time, have two kids, and 15 weeks pregnant, and have been on bad terms with this friend for a while now. How badly did I mess up here? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.09.08, 01:31 PM Flag
 

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Why didn't you just go to the burial? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.09.08, 01:32 PM Flag
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She only gave us the info for the wake in the original email, but I couldn't have gone to that any way because of work. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.09.08, 01:33 PM Flag
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Do you honestly care what a bunch of strangers think about what you did? Give yourself permission to just let it go, IMO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.09.08, 01:32 PM Flag
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make sure you send a card [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.09.08, 01:34 PM Flag
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hmm. i think it's ok that you didn't go, but do send a card and don't tell her why you didn't go or even mention.jus t say sorry i couldn't make it and offer condolences and be nice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.09.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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