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06.09.08, 08:20 AM News
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My brother is 24 and single and he has 2 kids from girls he dated in college and now he told me this girl he started having a fling with at a wedding in April is pregnant by him. He was upset since he thinks this will throw off his whole summer in the Hamptons vibe. When will he grow up? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
News 06.09.08, 08:20 AM Flag
 

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when will he get a vasectomy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:22 AM Flag
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OP: He needs one.....DH was so appalled from hearing this, he ran out and bought out a CVS for condoms and gave them to my brother with a lesson on how to use one in the Hamptons. Once can be forgiven but this is #3! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:23 AM Flag
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how can a 24 year old afford the child support for 3 kids? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:23 AM Flag
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and a share in the Hamptons! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:23 AM Flag
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good point...why do I get the feeling he isn't working too hard to support them? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:24 AM Flag
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He works in IB and has a good salary and my parents paid for the Hamptons share. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:24 AM Flag
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Your parents sound like they have really infantilized him. A 24 yo with 2 kids has no biz with a share in a summer house [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:25 AM Flag
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I know.....I know. My parents believe that since they see their grandsons a lot and help support them too and that since my brother is "so busy" he needs some time off with friends. Plus they figure he'll meet a nice girl out in the Hamptons. I really wish I was joking. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:27 AM Flag
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oh good lord! Your parents sound like a trip. What IB with 2 kids needs help from parents still? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:29 AM Flag
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He has my parents wrapped around his finger. Granted my parents helped me out early on with rent, grad school, but he's got them wrapped around his finger with stuff. He does pay his own rent. And he prides himself that he has a two bedroom so he can have a room for his sons. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:31 AM Flag
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He pays his own rent!!! Give him a medal...I parade. You are supposed to pay your own rent. The sense of entitlement these days is amazing!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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LOL.... I know, I know....as I said he is proud that he got a 2 bedroom so his sons have a place to sleep when they are with him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:34 AM Flag
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And now we see the real problem. Your parents should not be paying for anything for him. They should be paying for their grandkids. Your brother sounds like a spoiled brat. (speaking from someone who had spoiled brother (now passed away). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:26 AM Flag
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My parents do give money for both grandkids as well. And just like my 2 kids, they have started college trust funds for them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:28 AM Flag
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But should stop paying for your brother's lifestyle. He is a father now. He needs to grow up and act like one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:30 AM Flag
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My parents don't want him to have to lose out on having fun. Yes they are serious. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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Well there is the problem. Why the hell would your parents pay for their 24 year old sons summer share. That extra money should be going to his kids. Your brother is selfish and your parents are supporting his selfish behaviour. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 11:13 AM Flag
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He is paying support for hsi two sons and he sees them as much as he can. One lives in Boston and the other lives in Westchester. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:25 AM Flag
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He doesnt see them as much as he can if he has time to spend w'ends in the Hamptons. Why areyou defending him, he sounds awful. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:27 AM Flag
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I am just trying to give a good point to him. But yes, I know there is a problem and I want him to grow up. DH and I were literally in shock when he told us. As I said DH ran out to CVS, bought a large amount of condoms for my brother and then gave my brother a demonstration of how to put a condom on. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:29 AM Flag
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Putting on condoms is not the problem here. Your brother has some serious issues if he is running around impregnating women like this. He should have gotten fixed ASAP at a minimum. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:31 AM Flag
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I know, I know....he's got other problems. DH just wanted to try to figure out a way that this doesn't happen again until he gets married. DH also mentioned a vasectomy to him and my brother said "But I want to have kids when I get married" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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wow. sorry. and, unfortunately, probably not the last time this happens - since he is clearly fertile and lacks impulse control and a conscience. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:25 AM Flag
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OP: I know that's why I am getting more and more worried about this. When it happened the first time, you can chalk it up to a mistake. Twice is a problem, three times is unacceptable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:26 AM Flag
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Just curios as to why all these women would want to have a child w/ your brother out of wedlock? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:34 AM Flag
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OP: I have no clue, to be honest. The first happened when he was 19 and she was 24. The second was when he was 21 and she was 22 and now he is 24 and the woman is 24. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:39 AM Flag
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Do any of them work or have careers? Do your parents have a good relationship with the mothers? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:47 AM Flag
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My parents have a great relationship with both mothers. One of the mothers is a high school teacher and the other works in publishing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:49 AM Flag
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ita, they deserve him [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:41 AM Flag
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Why would any woman do this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:44 AM Flag
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Why are these women having hte babies? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:45 AM Flag
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Is your brother a man whore? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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single mom in need of a baby daddy - send him my way. just kidding. is he good looking? only dating pro-lifers? whats the story [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 09:21 AM Flag
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OP: He is good looking.....and I am not saying that because I am his sister. I don't know if he is only dating pro-lifers or what. It is kinda bizarre in that fashion. And this current one he wasn't dating....they kinda went out sometimes and had sex sometimes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 09:23 AM Flag
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isnt he worried about having unprotected sex? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 09:26 AM Flag
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OP: he siad he usually waits to not use a condom until he knows the girl very well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 09:39 AM Flag
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sorry but that is ridiculous! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 10:32 AM Flag
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np: Well, it's obvious he's a spoiled idiot, impregnating crazy women. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 10:34 AM Flag
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OP: I know he is spoiled and he needs to grow up and I don't know even how he keeps meeting these women to be honest. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 11:08 AM Flag
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Can you imagine sleeping with a man who says he two different baby mammas?! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 11:10 AM Flag
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Now he's on 3! I want to know where he found these women! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 11:11 AM Flag
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There's no way he tells these women. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 11:14 AM Flag
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Probably. But so weird to try to get pregnant with some random guy regardless. I mean, it's impossible that all three of them got accidentally pregnant. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 11:15 AM Flag
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OP: I think that number one was a true accident.....just knowing her, she was kinda flaky and I think that it was an accident. The other two I am not sure. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 11:18 AM Flag
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What would you do if he told you this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 11:16 AM Flag
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I'm 37. I highly doubt he'd be wanting to have sex with me. And I certainly wouldn't sleep with him without a condom! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 11:17 AM Flag
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abortion [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 11:17 AM Flag
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OP: He said the woman is pro-life and wants to have the baby [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.09.08, 11:17 AM Flag
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