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06.08.08, 08:38 AM General Topics
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I love him very much and he is wonderful with my children. We are scheduled to move in together at summer's end and get married next spring. I am very worried about this bec no, I am not willing to live with a problem drinker who gets angry and acts unpredictably. He is not actively in AA- quit on his own. He says he is not an alcoholic. I have seen flashes of intense anger from him recently that have scared me, and that's when he's sober. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.08.08, 08:38 AM Flag
 

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General Topics 06.08.08, 08:40 AM Flag
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I really would not have someone who I knew to be unpredicatable and angry around my kids. You need to look after yourself and protect your kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.08, 08:44 AM Flag
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i am sorry you are in such a difficult situation. it is lucky that you see problems now. i think you should see a professional b ecause it is a really tricky situation. i had a relationship where i noticed things were not so good. in fact, his family asked how i dealt with his anger. that should have been a clue that i should have not married him. i did and it was over pretty quickly but i got very depressed because of it. not saying this will happen to you, but read your own waring signs. there are people out there that do not have these problmes. was your relationship with you children's father like this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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work this out now, before you get married. if you really want to try to make it work, go to couples therapy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.08, 08:50 AM Flag
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get out now [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.08, 08:51 AM Flag
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how many red flags do you need? he's an angry alcoholic in denial--is that good for your kids? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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sorry to say that I'd also walk away from this guy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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