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06.08.08, 05:22 AM General Topics
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I am so sad to write this but I have ZEROattraction to my husband. He is a super nice, helpful guy who also always tells me how much he loves me - but I am totally not into him. He is in horrible shape, always seems sort of overwhelmed and exhausted, has no hobbies or interests, and blames everything on the fact that he has too many financial pressures. I thought there was something wrong with me, b/c I feel zero attraction...yesterday we saw some friends of his and I realized how it's just him. I saw these men, all active, engaged, in great shape, and financially well off - and I got it was just him. I know everyone will say Therapy...but I fear this is just the way he is...and its just really unappealing. I asked him yesterday, why not start going to the gym..he said that gardening is his exercise..I was like - maybe when you retire...but he is 45yo!!! The whole thing is so frustrating - I feel like I am married to an old depressed man. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.08.08, 05:22 AM Flag
 

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these posts always make me so sad cause i think of all the husbands that feel this way when their wives gain weight,or we are tired etc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.08.08, 05:24 AM Flag
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