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06.06.08, 18:48 PM Toddler
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wwyd- dh plays on a coed softball team. They hang out until very late on nights they play, and they sometimes have parties at each other's homes. He never invites me- I'm a disaster in softball, but for the social things it's just "understood" that it's his thing and he doesn't extend the invitation. I could go, but now I'm uncomfortable because they've been playing for three years. Would this bother you? It's growing issue for me. ps- we don't do anything as a couple anymore, either. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
Toddler 06.06.08, 06:48 PM Flag

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Ask him why he doesn't want you there. That'll put him on the defensive [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 06:49 PM Flag

op: He just tells me to come, but it's not like an invitation, it's more like a way to shut me up. I don't even know these people, for the most part. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 06:51 PM Flag

Make an effort to get to know them, then. They're clearly important to him and if you don't want to widen the gulf this has created, you have to work to narrow it. Maybe if he sees you making an effort, he'll be more inclusive [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 06:56 PM Flag

it might be your interpretation that it is a way to shut you up. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.07.08, 03:20 AM Flag

tell him this and make plans as a couple once a week [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 06:49 PM Flag