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06.06.08, 15:54 PM General Topics
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My husband and I have been married almost 7 years. He has been obsessed with wanting to try anal sex since we were dating and I have been resistant (scared of the pain). Do you have ideas on how to make this experience bearable? My stalling tactics are wearing thin. Husband has only slept with two women in his life and not extremely sexually experienced - hence my apprehension about all of this. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 03:54 PM Flag
 

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I think its seriously unfair that he's pressuring you to do something that you dont want to [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 03:55 PM Flag
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I don't feel extremely pressured - he has been respectful and patient,I just don't know how to relax or trust that his lack of finesse won't be a disaster. Anyone have any tips? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 03:58 PM Flag
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use lube. go slow. fingers first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 03:55 PM Flag
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don't do it if you really don't want to. if you are willing to try use tons and tons of lube, go very slow, and you on your stomach with legs together is the easiest starter position [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 03:56 PM Flag
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I don't understand this - does it actually feel good? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 04:00 PM Flag
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imo, yes. but if you don't take the time to use lube and warm up properly it will hurt like hell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 04:02 PM Flag
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these are all suggestions I have heard before, so they must be good ones. Guess I just have to decide if I am going to go for it or not. Better wait until after I delivery my baby so I can get a little tipsy first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 04:08 PM Flag
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