UrbanBaby

06.06.08, 13:44 PM Newborn
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Anyone ever do this? I blew my top with my sister because she is so irresponsible, very very narcissictic to the point where it is like a disease, always drops her kid at everyone else's house, cops threatening to take baby away because she and her dh are always fighting and screaming (bad fights). he cheats on her, she cheats on him etc.. So she said to me - well I want another kid soon and I lost it. Why do I care?? I get upset cause having a kid is not a joke and I feel like she doesn't respect that fact. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
Newborn 06.06.08, 01:44 PM Flag

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nothing you can do. and she is probably not narcissistic, but borderline. what you can do is read, 'the search for hte real self' by james masterson. and also, 'stepping on eggshells' by marsha something. the latter on is just for communication. how is her relationship with your mother? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 01:48 PM Flag

Get the book Stop Walking on Eggshells. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 01:50 PM Flag

Thanks - very very good advice [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 01:57 PM Flag

you are welcome. incidentally, i am formerly borderline. if you want to get her help, have her see dr. masterson or any of his associates. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 02:04 PM Flag

np: I didn't know that borderline could be successfully treated? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 02:25 PM Flag