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06.06.08, 07:48 AM General Topics
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I cheated on my DH twice with this cute guy who used to work in my office, one time the condom broke and now I'm pregnant and I am not sure who is the father. (I had sex with DH around that time, so it could be DH's baby.) What do I do now? I don't want to tell DH I had an affair. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:48 AM Flag

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call Maury! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:49 AM Flag

fake. or, if it's not fake, this really isn't the forum for you. go somewhere else. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:49 AM Flag

I get all my good advice here! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:50 AM Flag

like the advice you got to sleep with the cute guy in your office? quality stuff! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 08:02 AM Flag

Are they the same race? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:49 AM Flag

yes [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:50 AM Flag

you need to have the guy from work get tested along with you. See if he's the father. If it's your husband's, no need to hurt him with these details. But is the affair still going on? Do you want to be with this guy? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:50 AM Flag

np: ita. there are mail in paternity tests available in the drug store now. you can't do it until after the baby comes, but once it does, I would do this asap, then figure out where to go from there depending on the results. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:51 AM Flag

What if it's the other guy's baby? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:52 AM Flag

I saw this on a Law & Order SVU once. There is a test called CVS that can be done at 12 weeks. It will tell you the identity of the dad. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:55 AM Flag

cvs is an incredibly invasive test. You can do a cheek swab after the baby is born unless you plan to abort, then you will have to do amnio or cvs. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 08:02 AM Flag

The affair is over, we literally had sex only twice. I don't want to be with him. I ended up sleeping with him because I was upset with DH because he was being more distant with me, etc and wrapped up in his work and the other guy filled a need in my life at that moment. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:52 AM Flag

how very mature [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:54 AM Flag

The other guy filled a need I needed filled at that time and it was magical and wonderful and fun. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:56 AM Flag

Ok, now I realize this is fake! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:59 AM Flag

This is definitely fake -- this exact post was on the old UB a few months back. I'm clearly spending too much time here. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:51 AM Flag

If you're going to post a fake story at least make it interesting and somewhat realistic sounding. *yawn* [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.06.08, 08:01 AM Flag