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06.06.08, 07:23 AM General Topics
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So my dh; that cannot hold a job since db was born, because he doesnt want to.Parties behind my back when he does have cash. Makes himself seem like a victim in front of his parents,getting evicted cause the landlady cant stand his behaviour and tons of bad things..has told me to shut up crackhead and meant it, i dont do drugs and i seem tired because im doing all the work at home.. im so broken on the inside and feel these were the break up words to our short lived marriage..flame away or advice on btdt? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.06.08, 07:23 AM Flag
 

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how old is db? how long have you been married? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:24 AM Flag
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db is is going to be 11 months , and married before she came into the world [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:30 AM Flag
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1 day before? 1 year before? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:31 AM Flag
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2 months before , we have known each other for 10 years [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:32 AM Flag
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dated for 10 years or friends? when did your relationship become romantic? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:36 AM Flag
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well we were friends first and then became lovers a year later , he moved in with me and made my life hell cheated etc etc , 3years later i broke it off and in 2005 we found each other again and began dating , alot better second time around, alot happier, but still the problems underneath it all and then pg in 2006 ... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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this is exactly how UB is now broken. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:26 AM Flag
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which part? posting to every board? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:27 AM Flag
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yes and the lack of coherent sentence structure. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:28 AM Flag
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if you dont like it read another well grammered post - hag. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:31 AM Flag
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exactly what I mean. The troglodites used to be confined to toddler. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:38 AM Flag
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***boring*** but yet your using all your 2cent words on someone who could care less for your education lesson [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:45 AM Flag
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Whay did you mayy him ? What are his good qualities? has he always been like this or is this new behavior? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:27 AM Flag
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well he was shitty person before and when got back together he seemed to clean up his act , when i found out i was pg he had a job and things were going smoothly, until she was born then everything went sour. hes one of those mama's boys and still is. im hurt cause i feel like this guy has no respect for me. i guess im closuring the relationship here to be stronger for myself and my beautiful db. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:36 AM Flag
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Board whore [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:27 AM Flag
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you must be bored [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:31 AM Flag
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Leave him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:33 AM Flag
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Sorry you're going through a tough time, but it really does sound as if you should leave him. Good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:34 AM Flag
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i really want to becuase i think he has no idea how hard it is to work and pay for evrything on his own,(hes never lived by himself) and since hes sitting back and reaping all of my rewards without any regrets. what hurts mostly is that he meant it, i mhight look worn out becasue i have no money to do anything other than work , eat, sleep in a home and take care of both of them. i feel soo stupid [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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np: He sounds like a loser and you are only stupid if you stay with him and let him drag you and db down. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:44 AM Flag
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op: i agree , im soo depressed to realize my marriage is over and my poor db that loves her father will have to be totally alone with me now. why is life soo hard? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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Both you and db will be better off in the long run. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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i think im scared cause i have no family at all.i never wanted to have a baby and do it all on my own [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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you never wanted it, but you went out and picked a loser and had a baby with him. I am not flaming, just telling you to look at how you did exactly what you say you didn't want to do. you must look at that, and try to figure out why. this will help you from repeating this over and over again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 11:46 AM Flag
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GET SOME THERAPY AND AL-ANON, WOMAN! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:44 AM Flag
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for some reason therapy does nothing but bring me more into depression, and his drug problems doesnt bother anymore , i think i have to leave this man, thank you for your advice though [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.06.08, 07:48 AM Flag
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