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06.05.08, 18:49 PM General Topics
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we live in a townhouse. 5 yr old daughters room is on top floor. our just beneath. the only spare room is on the floor with my daughter's. a male friend of dh's is staying over. it is one of his very dearest friends since childhood and he has 2 kids of his own. am i nuts to feel a little uncomfortable about his proximity to my daughter? i hope i am. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 06:49 PM Flag
 

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Close her door and use a monitor [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 06:50 PM Flag
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Yes, you are being nuts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 06:50 PM Flag
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it seems you are alone in your opinion [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 06:53 PM Flag
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No - I think it's just instinctive. Any way your dd can bunk with you that night? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 06:50 PM Flag
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No. I always am aware when we have male guests near my son's room. You're right. If you feel that uncomfortable then have her sleep in your room or re arrange the sleeping arrangements. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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ugh. dh will give me SUCH a hard time on this one. jerk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 07:04 PM Flag
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I would be uncomfortable too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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I would be uncomfortable too - although I'm sure it will be fine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 06:52 PM Flag
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Most abusers are close to the family. Trusted, if you will. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 06:53 PM Flag
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if some thing were to happen, and I don't think it will, do you think dd would say some thing? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 06:54 PM Flag
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I think so but I think all moms think so and obviously many are wrong [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 07:03 PM Flag
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i never leave my children alone with anybody except their father, grandparents and my sisters. not alone w/preteen cousins, bil, family friends, etc... it's just not worth the risk, my guilt, mental damage, years of therapy, however slight. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 06:54 PM Flag
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np: people may think you're paranoid, but i think you're very smart and i plan on being the same way. my friend's 5yo dd was molested by an older cousin. you really never know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 07:03 PM Flag
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how much older was the cousin? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 07:05 PM Flag
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better safe than sorry [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.05.08, 07:09 PM Flag
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