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06.04.08, 20:55 PM General Topics
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Anyone ever fool around, just a wee bit (i.e. no sex) with no consequences? In a major slump in my marriage, no sex for months, and a very attractive person who I'm itching to have a no-strings dalliance with. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 08:55 PM Flag
 

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search affair mom to see what the reality of doing that is like. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 08:56 PM Flag
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I don't want an "affair". I want some snogging. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 08:57 PM Flag
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And how do you plan to avoid having it turn into an affair? Is this something you'd be okay with your DH doing? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 08:59 PM Flag
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If I never found out, if he did not compromise my sexual health, and if it made him able to think clearly again, possibly. yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 09:01 PM Flag
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what do you think dh would do if he found out? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 09:05 PM Flag
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He and I have actually had open conversations about extramarital stuff. We both feel like it's not a dealbreaker, although it would certainly be symptomatic of bigger issues. We're kind of open like that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 09:06 PM Flag
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do you think that he's fooling around? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 09:08 PM Flag
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I don't know. But he's a good dad and a committed husband, and I'm still attracted to him. He may have, but I don't know about it. I'm not stupid, but I'm also not jealous. He's a big boy and needs to deal with his own actions. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 09:09 PM Flag
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if you're still attracted to him, try to relight the fire between you. Not all affairs/open marriages end badly but most of the ones that I've known of do. If you're so confident that it won't be a big deal with him, why not let him know in advance so that you're not filing for divorce in a year? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 09:14 PM Flag
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