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06.03.08, 11:42 AM New York City
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Best thing about getting into public pre-k: now we can afford to get our basement finished! [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 06.03.08, 11:42 AM Flag
 

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So you're rich enough to own your own brownstone but you can't afford to finish the basement unless you send dc to free preschool? Huh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 01:05 PM Flag
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np: what if that is true? why would it bother you? $20K for preschool could allow someone to finish their basement if they didn't have to pay it for preK. I hate this mentality around here that only the desperately poor are allowed to get free public education [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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i never said op wasn't entitled to send her dc to school for free. i'm just not gonna throw her a pity party for only now being able to get around to finishing her basement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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np: you make a lot of assumptions from her original post. and, since when is public school "free?" don't we all pay taxes? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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this is the most entitled, a$$hole response of the day. you are saying because you pay taxes just like your cleaning lady does, you should have the same shot at free pre-k as she does? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:05 PM Flag
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np: yes, that is what I would say. so sick of bleeding money in this city, working my ass off and then having people like you hate me, and want me to without the basics that are provided by my tax dollars. leave america if you don't like it. this is not communist china, you know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 07:31 PM Flag
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preschool is not a basic. it's a luxury afforded to the few. and just because it's provided by your tax dollars means nothing. do you think you deserve food stamps because you pay for them? free housing? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 05:19 AM Flag
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nnp. You sound more entitled than she does, frankly. You have that sanctimonious, bleeding-heart attitude that presumes to be the arbiter of who deserves what. Neither the poster nor her cleaning lady has more "right" to these programs, unless the DOE says so. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 08:58 PM Flag
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here's the deal. the doe doesn't have money to keep the k-5 schools running without cutbacks. we can either cut even more so that there is public pre-k for everyone, and thus every umc mommy in park slope can have free babysitting, or we can put the money where it matters and leave the public pre-k's to people who desperately need them. you choose. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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False choice. Also, one that you could just as well apply to every grade. Send the umc's to private school and free up resources for the working class! Ah, but that's different, right? After all, pre-K is "not necessary." Unless you're not umc--then it's desperately necessary. (No, but if you're umc, you can afford to pay for it! Well, yes, but you can afford private k-12 then, too.) Your arguments are slippery, changing to suit your convenience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 10:27 AM Flag
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NP: Look around you. We live in a city of stark contrast between the ultra-wealthy and families who don't know where their next meal is coming from. I'm not saying that I agree with OR, or the implication of her statement to OP. Who knows the OP's situation. But distribution of scarce resources is a legitimate concern, especially with this Administration cutting school budgets when the city has a $4Billion budget SURPLUS. And trying to cut deals with private schools to give them unfettered access to public land (ie, Randall's Island) when public schools in the inner city have no such opportunities. It's downright criminal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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np: ITA. Unless public pre-K is guaranteed for all, the placements should go to lower incomes and at-risk children first. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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NP: I could not agree more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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np: well, i don't live in ny. i live in sf and although our public school is all of 3 blocks from my house and i pay probably 20x the property taxes of my neighbors due to prop 13, i will most likely have to pay for private school on top of all that i pay in taxes. our public schools are on a lottery system, so my child may be shipped across town to a public school that he might get into or i'll have to shell out 20k for kindergarten. this makes no sense either. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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quadritto. free pre-k (and pre-k is not in ANY WAY necessary) should be reserved for those who need it as childcare. poor families in which both parent works. not smug rich lucky park slope a$$holes who want to finish the basement in their brownstone they bought with profits from a real estate sale. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:53 PM Flag
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And yet it's not! We get everything handed to us! And we think we deserve it because we're so holy and liberal! Ah, it's truly the best of both worlds. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:57 PM Flag
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the park slope limousine liberals are THE WORST! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:07 PM Flag
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Hey! What is YOUR problem? People are always so happy to attack Park Slope. Where do YOU live? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:17 PM Flag
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Quintitto! I agree, but I'm happy for an excuse to say it. Here, I'll do it again. Quintitto! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:59 PM Flag
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OP: Yep. Bought an apartment in the '90s when they were cheap (Park Slope), bought a brownstone with the profits. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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this is perhaps the best vba of all time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:51 PM Flag
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No, it's just an actual b. Hey--she asked! lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:52 PM Flag
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no, i meant her original post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:07 PM Flag
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Hope they don't take the spot away from you tomorrow after the press conference at Tweed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:46 PM Flag
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Actually you hope they will. And yet they won't! LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:50 PM Flag
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np where did you buy? Not exactly of course - just curious. We lived in PS for 20 years and sold our brownstone on 4th street 2 yrs ago. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:00 PM Flag
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Same general vicinity (within a few blocks)--don't want to be more specific. Have been in PS about 16 years. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:04 PM Flag
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well enjoy! don't let this crowd's jealousy get to you. Good luck with the basement refinishing. We never got to that point - it looked like something out of a Stpehen King novel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:07 PM Flag
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lol, that's us now exactly [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:08 PM Flag
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aw, poor you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:18 PM Flag
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Landlord called. The rent's late. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:29 PM Flag
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nice try, but i own. in manhattan. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:30 PM Flag
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Sure. It's the Internet, you can be whatever you want! Make it a townhouse in the West Village... those are really nice. Townhouses are so nice. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:32 PM Flag
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it's not a townhouse, but it is in the wv. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:33 PM Flag
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:) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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Oh, honey, don't give up. You'll have a townhouse someday. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:42 PM Flag
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will you please stop. you are giving PS a bad name! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:31 PM Flag
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jealous much? white trash? victim of sub prime mortgage? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.03.08, 07:12 PM Flag
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Memphis? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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